Romantic/sexual relationships are very important for most people and men are no exception. Developing and maintaining healthy and supportive relationships requires commitment, self-awareness, relationship skills and hard work. The purpose of this quiz is to help you reflect on your romantic relationship and identify areas which you may want to improve upon.
Do you treat your partner with respect?
Are you concerned about how you treat your partner?
Are you able to express anger/frustration constructively?
Do you say or do things to your partner that you later regret?
Do you share power and decision making with your partner?
Do you frequently need to feel in control in your relationship?
Are you able to discuss and resolve conflicts constructively?
Do you and your partner fight a lot?
Do you trust your partner?
Do you worry about your partner “cheating” on you?
Are you able to respect you partner’s boundaries.
Are you tempted to check your partner’s emails/texts?
Do you usually get along pretty well?
Is there a lot of “drama” in your relationship?
Do you have others besides your partner that you rely?
Do you exclusively rely on your partner?
We are not born with relationship skills, we have to learn them. All of us can improve upon our relationship skills. If you answered yes to question 2 it is crucial that you seek help immediately. (See resources page) If you answered yes to any of the other even number items or no to the odd numbered items would indicate you need to pay attention to these areas. If you feel you need some outside assistance (see resource page)